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"I kept a terrible secret from my husband for 23 years" / The 45-year-old tells the shocking story to the psychologist about her first child: Shouldn't you take this secret with you to the grave?
Written by SOT.COM.AL 22 Tetor 2021
A 45-year-old has lived with a big secret for 23 years. After a quarrel with her ex-husband, she decided to have sex with an unknown man.
Despite not maintaining contact with her, she became pregnant. She married her ex-partner a few months later, and then the boy came to life. A few years later, she became a mother again and gave birth to her second son. However, over the years, the changes in the appearance of the boys become more and more noticeable.
Every day she wonders if the eldest son belongs to the man she went with for a single night. Here is the full story:
" I made a big mistake many years ago that could destroy the family. I am 45 years old, divorced and with two children. The ex-partner and I have maintained a good relationship with each other. We have two sons, aged 22 and 21. But I kept a terrible secret for 23 years.
After a difficult period we were going through in our relationship, I went with another guy for one night. I never told my partner about it and I never met the guy I had sex with.
But a few months later, I found out I was pregnant with my eldest son. I desperately wanted him to be my partner and I held the baby. I gave birth to a beautiful boy. Shortly thereafter, we were married.
Not long after, our second child came. But as they grew older, I noticed that they did not resemble each other at all. My second son has a big body like his father and dark, wavy hair. The first boy is has straight hair and is thin.
My ex-husband thinks the big boy looks like me, so he never suspected that something was wrong in between. But something tells me that he is not the biological father of the boy.
I dont know what to do. If I tell my ex-husband and son, they will be ruined and it can ruin all our relationship forever. "I can lose the love of my children."
" You have to think carefully about what you will gain if you discover this secret, which you say no one else knows and is very unlikely to come to light after 23 years. Being honest will lift the heavy weight that your conscience currently holds. But you will place the burden of truth and pain on your son and ex-spouse.
You can not rely only on appearance when it comes to fatherhood. The only way to be sure is through a DNA test. On the other hand, your son deserves to know who he really is and to understand his genetic heritage. But your ex-partner will always be your son's father.
Think about it: Is it always the right thing to do to tell the truth? Or should you take this secret with you to the grave? “.